The true point of living by a budget

In a recent post, Matt at the blog One Million and Beyond describes the fluid budget. I was glad to see it because the "fluid budget" sounds a bit like the one my wife M and I are on.

We've gotten to the cash register at the grocery store and had to take things off the conveyor belt because we exceeded our spending limit for that trip. But at times we've also shifted money from one category because we suddenly decided to spend more in another category. As Matt points out, a "fluid" budget that has some give can work.

Most people think of a budget like a pair of financial handcuffs, very tight and uncomfortable. But the point of a budget is not to determine ahead of time exactly what you are going to spend in every category of your life and then rigidly spend only that amount. A budget is just a tool to help you control your spending so that you are living within--or even better, below--your means.

When your budget is working, it feels good. You know how much you have to spend, you're making conscious decisions about what dollars go where, and most importantly, you're not piling up debt.

Accomplish those things--whether using a rigid or fluid budget--and you'll take a big step toward reaching your financial goals.

More fun at the Carnival of Personal Finance

I saw Matt's post at this week's Carnival, hosted by Christian Personal Finance. Here are couple more of my (and the editor's) picks from the week's selection:

The whole armor of personal finance. At Debt Free Adventure, Matt draws an analogy between the armor of God described in Ephesians 6:10 and the "armor of personal finance." It's a cool and very appropriate parallel (though I prefer the more plain-English version of the verse, instead of ye olde King James version). After all, every financial decision is a spiritual decision.

Buy on the rumor, sell on the news. Dorian from The Personal Financier gives his take on the link between investing and psychology, my favorite aspect of money. One interesting thing he discusses here: How the expectation of getting money, in our own minds, is actually more satisfying than actually getting it. Go figure!

Posts in the Carnival of Personal Finance

This week's Carnival is up at the Quest for Four Pillars, a Canadian blog, eh? So don't be a hoser...check it out, especially these posts:

Ten financial lessons I learned from my dog, at squawkfox.
How to make a budget work, at beingfrugal.net.
How Wide Open Wallet teaches her kids about money.

Good personal finance advice for your ears

I love my iPod. Listening to podcasts of radio shows from Dave Ramsey, Crown Financial Ministries, and Charles Stanley make my hour-long commute to and from work an education rather than just a grind. (In fact, I rarely listen to music.)

I'm going to add another show to my podcast favorites: "The Color of Money" from National Public Radio (NPR). It airs every week on NPR's "Day to Day" show. Michelle Singletary, the personal finance columnist for the Washington Post, is the primary contributor. The segment covers the usual range of topics, from saving for retirement, college, etc. to tips on starting a business.

Maybe the best part about it: It's informative and short, about four minutes long. Plus, with the podcast, no endless NPR fundraising segments to sit through in the fall and spring.

A Penny Saved hosts Carnival
The list of submissions to the weekly Carnival of Personal Finance seems to get longer and longer. This week's carnival is at A Penny Saved, and since there are so many choices, here are a few from the bottom of the list you otherwise may not have seen:

• The pursuit of the perfect savings rate at "My financial journey."
• 13 ways to save on gasoline, at "How to save money" (though you need to live near an Indian reservation for one tip).
• How persistence will make you rich someday, on "Money Smart Life."

Kids and money, loose change, and turkey leftovers

Carnival of Personal Finance #76 is up at My Financial Journey, with 47 entries. My personal highlights:

Finance-4-Kids gives some tips on how to teach your kids about money. One or two seem a little pie-in-the-sky--I'm not sure how you can "Eliminate fear and greed" in anyone, let alone children--but generally his points are well-taken.

(Incidentally, I've started CJ Jr. putting money in his piggy bank. At two-and-a-half years old, he is more interested in the loud "clunk!" sound from dropping the coins into the pig's belly than the value of saving today for something tomorrow. Hopefully, someday that will change.)

Jenna Coffee at Moneybucks Coffee writes about something dear to my heart, given the name of my blog: what she calls "nuisance money," or the coins at the bottom of her purse and in a jar on the counter. I didn't know Coinstar charged 8.9% for their automated machine to count your pennies (it's also free if you use the money to buy a gift card). Nice work if you can get it.

Finally, here's a post in the spirit of the season that I wish I wrote: What can you learn about money from a turkey dinner? at Money Smart Life. You'll be looking at your Thanksgiving leftovers in a new way.